It's Monday and I am here posting I don't know what.
Instead of my usual post of weekend yard sale finds, I feel like I just need to talk.
A few years ago I was in a relationship that I thought was going to be perfect. Instead, the person I thought I was in love with was all about lies and deceit. This weekend, this person made an appearance in my life. a very scarey appearance.
Late Friday night and Saturday morning I received a couple phone calls that were hang ups. Honestly, I didn't think anything about it. I figured it was telemarketers.
Saturday afternoon I came home to find this guy on my porch. We had a few words that were not so nice and yes, I ended up calling the police but,by the time they arrived
he was already gone .
More hang ups on Saturday night. Yesterday , the phone rang and he said alot of mean things, hateful, ugly things to me. I have stuck close to home all weekend. My daughter is still in Columbus.
Why do people have to be like that? Why do they have to cause so much pain?
How can you profess your love to someone and still try to destroy them?
I feel like its a nightmare that won't end. It's sad because I really tried to make it work with this guy at one time. He told me things would be better, he told me he would change.
Why do people lie??
Why can't life be like you dream it?
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AWWW Kim, I am so sorry he is bringing all the bad stuff back in your life. I would let someone know about him. The police or someone. I mean if you dont want him around. Notify the phone company as well.
ReplyDeleteI would be scared out of my mind. I have one of those. Not that he is in my life in any way, but I do know about loving someone unconditionally only to have them lie and treat you bad. Hang in there.
Hugs to you.
oh gosh :( I am so sorry. One thing I always try to remember is to learn things from the trials we go through...so even though it is horrible...we can learn and grow through them. I pray God will bring the right man into your life!!!
ReplyDeleteI agree with Katy, you have found out what he is and now you know what to look for...we learn and grow from people like that.
ReplyDeleteI'll say a prayer for you tonight, I know what you are going thur. Rondell
I hope things get better for you; and at least you found out now... better than later, you know? Focus on the positive; you are bright and creative and will attract that to you. Everyone has had a misstep in their life. It will get better; but make sure others know what is going on (police etc) for safety's sake; you just never know.
ReplyDeletethanks all!! i notified the police when he should up saturday. he hasnt been in my life for quite a while so i am not sure why he showed up now.
ReplyDeleteOh Kim, I too would be scared. He sounds like a stalker. I would go get a restraining order at the police department.
ReplyDeleteI have learned most people do not change. He must be down on his luck and needs something from you. I would be very leery. Also dial *69 and it should give you the phone number of the hang up then tell the police.
Mary
Kim, I am sorry that this has come up in your life, I will be thinking about you and hope and pray he will be gone for good.
ReplyDeleteTake care,
melissa
Just take care of yourself and keep yourself safe. If you feel threatened in any way call the police. I pray you get through this situation very quickly and he will just leave you alone.~Wendy
ReplyDeleteKim, you're in my prayers. No one knows why people come back into your life, maybe it is a reminder of how far you have come and the strength you have acquired through the years. Pat yourself on the back he's not a part of your life anymore! By the way, I have always loved your blog and have added you to my favorites. I use the soap recipe you shared and just love it. I have shared it with my family and they are now users! Best wishes, Angie
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry that this happened to you. I feel you are a sweet spirit who does not deserve this. I will pray for you and about this situation...m.
ReplyDeleteKim,
ReplyDeleteI have had this happen to me in my younger years. Today it is called stalking and is against the law. Please alert the police that this person is contacting you repeatedly and that he has been to your house.
Blessings and stay safe.
Mary
kim~i have thought about you often since this post~i am keeping you in my prayers~i hope things are ok.
ReplyDeleteI could have written this post myself today! I am thinking of you ...
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry your weekend was so bad, I know the feeling of being uncomfortable in my own home and it's just a violation in itself! Praying he stays away and you are at peace!!
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Shayne Louree
Kim, I am here if ya need to talk,
ReplyDeletei am so sorry you are having to deal with him again.
You are in my prayers.
Kim, just checkin' on ya. Hope everything is ok.
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